Month: July 2024

050724 BLENDED ORGASMS

050724 BLENDED ORGASMS

By Lora DiCarlo and posted with her prior permission and, it would appear, heavily reliant on https://www.healthline.com/ for its information

Can you count on more than one hand how many types of orgasms you’ve had? Not how many times you’ve orgasmed—but the type. If you’re scratching your head, we’ve got some titillating news for you; there are between four and fourteen different kinds of orgasms for people with vaginas, and how many you attempt is up to you.

Blended orgasms are essentially a combined G-spot and clitoral orgasm

To hit this O-mazing orgasm, you’ll need to stimulate both places at once, or in close alternation. Think clitoral suction and G-spot finger at the same time. The best toys for women and people with vaginas do both, but there are dozens of options outside toys. Couples have a lot of options for partner play (and we’ll let your imagination run wild), but here are some common positions

Couples may consider trying:

  • Penetration, perhaps with a penis, while using a vibrator or a toy that provides clitoral suction.
  • Penetration without a penis, or a toy which stimulates the G-spot, while your partner provides clitoral stimulation with fingers or mouth.

During solo play, you may want to try:

  • A toy that stimulates both areas at once.
  • Manual G-spot stimulation using your fingers, in combination with clitoral stimulation through your other hand or a separate toy.

COREGASM

Okay, hear us out on this one. Some people with vaginas report having “coregasms,” or orgasms achieved through their core muscles, usually during exercise. Look, if anything is going to motivate us to be more active, we can’t think of a better way than attempting a new kind of orgasm!

Here are some poses that can trigger coregasms:

You may or may not be able to experience this unique sensation, but the finish line isn’t the point. The journey of discovery is far more important!

MALE ORGASMS

So far, we’ve focused on vaginal orgasms, but we’d be remiss not to mention the differing orgasms for people with penises. Of course, most people with penises will be familiar with the classic penile orgasm, often characterized by ejaculation, but what do you know about the P-spot?

The P-spot has been called the male G-spot and is located inside the anus. It’s a highly sensitive area that can provide orgasms all by itself when stimulated. Refer back to the section on relaxing anal muscles and consider trying digital penetration, or take the challenge a little further and give a small dildo or other toy a try.

People with vaginas know the vulnerability of being penetrated; society accustoms us to this experience and teaches it’s the most common, normal kind of sex between heterosexual couples. But that just isn’t true, and people with penises deserve to experience new, exciting kinds of pleasure too.