061224 HOW TO PLEASE YOUR G Spot

By Lora DiCarlo and posted with her prior permission and, it would appear, heavily reliant on https://www.healthline.com/ for its information.

Can you count on more than one hand how many types of orgasms you’ve had? Not how many times you’ve orgasmed—but the type. If you’re scratching your head, we’ve got some titillating news for you; there are between four and fourteen different kinds of orgasms for people with vaginas, and how many you attempt is up to you

Now, let’s assume that you are comfortable and relaxed, and you’ve spent some time getting warmed up. Massaging the thighs, buttocks, and labia can create the necessary state of relaxation, and also stimulates additional circulation in the area of interest. Perhaps you’ve already had a clitoral orgasm, so your clitoris is aroused and erect.

Begin by applying pressure and gentle stroking motions (similar to a come-hither gesture) to the front vaginal wall. If you’re new to exploring this internal zone, it may feel a bit odd or uncomfortable at first. You might feel like you need to pee. Most people with vaginas report that a G-spot orgasm is a slow build, so take your time until you find a spot that produces enjoyable sensations. Try pressing a hand on your belly, close to the pubic mound while another hand stimulates your G-spot and clitoral glans.

As long as things are feeling good, keep going. Given the controversial history of the G-spot, it’s not entirely surprising that very little research has been conducted on the topic of female sexual pleasure. That’s why we surveyed over 1,000 people, asking what types of speed and pressure they most preferred when stimulating their G-spot.

Here’s what they had to say:  

Concerning speed:

• 33% prefer alternating speeds
• 30% prefer a build-up from a slow to a fast speed
• 19% prefer a medium speed
• 12% prefer a fast speed
• 6% prefer a slow speed

  As for the amount of pressure applied to the G-spot:

• 39% prefer a mixture depending on how aroused they are
• 37% prefer a firm pressure
• 21% prefer a medium pressure
• 3% prefer a light pressure

So what does this all mean? There’s more than one way to stimulate your G-spot. If you don’t find something enjoyable on the first or even multiple tries, don’t worry. It takes time to find exactly what you prefer (and that could be nothing—you might not find G-spot stimulation pleasurable, which is completely normal).

A G-spot orgasm not only takes more time to achieve, but it also lasts longer and feels different than a clitoral orgasm. Some people report being unable to identify exactly when a G-spot orgasm begins and ends because the point of pleasure is not as localized as it is with a clitoral orgasm, rather, it is felt deeply in your core and throughout the entire body. Sounds pretty great, huh?

Learning about your anatomy and preferences can help you communicate your likes and dislikes to your partner(s). It is important to note that not every person will find G-spot stimulation pleasurable, or be able to climax from that stimulation alone. If that’s your story, move on, because there are still many other types of orgasms to explore. Orgasms have more benefits than just feeling great. They help improve your sleep, skin, and mood, among other things.

If you’re curious about learning more about the benefits of orgasms you can discover the health benefits of masturbation (no orgasm required!).

In summary, the G-spot does exist and for many (though not all) people with vaginas, stimulating it can result in some pretty fantastic orgasms. It takes a while to find your G-spot and learn just what types of speeds and pressure you enjoy, but keep with it! You may be surprised by the amount of pleasure you can experience.